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Hetaira (hetaera): Greek Courtesan
Return to Classical and Hellenistic Greece
Hetaira
Prostitution was legal in Athens, as long as it was not practiced by an Athenian citizen. This
meant that prostitutes tended either to be slaves, whether female or male, or metics, who, not
being born of Athenian parents could not themselves be citizens but who did have certain
rights as resident aliens. Among prostitutes, a distinction was made between the common
pornê (buyable woman) and the hetaira (hetaera) or companion, who usually was an
accomplished courtesan and often more educated than respectable wives and daughters
sequestered at home. In a society in which men tended to marry late, in which marriages
usually were not for love, and in which the women of citizen families often were secluded,
"to be least talked about by men," in the words of Pericles, "whether they are praising you or
criticizing you," the role of the hetaira perhaps is inevitable.
And it was in the social institution of the symposium, or drinking party, that it was enacted.
Exclusively the province of a privileged male elite, the symposium was characterized by its
homosexual or bisexual ethos; its philosophical and political discourse and creative
competitions, in which elegies were sung to the accompaniment of a flute and lyric songs by
the lyre; and, as the symposiasts began to feel the effects of even watered wine, the less
intellectual (and not always welcomed) embrace of slave boys and flute girls, and, of course,
hetairai. The symposium usually took place in the andron (men's room), the most wellappointed room in the house. Around this dining area, participants each reclined on a couch,
resting on the left elbow and keeping the other hand free. The symposium followed the
evening meal and began with libations and a paean sung to Dionysus, the god of wine. Its
activities were dictated by a symposiarch, who decided upon the entertainment for the
occasion and even how much water would be mixed with the wine. The symposium might
end with the comus, a boisterous procession of revelers, accompanied by music and singing
in honor of the god, to yet another drinking party. All this is depicted on the red-figure vases
of the archaic period, especially the drinking cup used at the symposium, the cylix.
In his Dialogues of the Courtesans, Lucian (second century AD) relates an exchange between
two friends about a successful courtesan:
"In the first place, she dresses attractively and looks neat; she's gay with all the
men, without being so ready to cackle as you are, but smiles in a sweet
bewitching way; later on, she's very clever when they're together, never cheats a
visitor or an escort, and never throws herself at the men. If ever she takes a fee
for going out to dinner, she doesn't drink too much—that's ridiculous, and men
hate women who do—she doesn't gorge herself—that's ill-bred, my dear—but
picks up the food with her finger-tips, eating quietly and not stuffing both cheeks
full, and, when she drinks, she doesn't gulp, but sips slowly from time to
time....Also, she doesn't talk too much or make fun of any of the company, and
has eyes only for her customer. These are the things that make her popular with
the men. Again, when it's time for bed, she'll never do anything coarse or
slovenly, but her only aim is to attract the man and make him love her; these are
the things they all praise in her."
Not permitted to marry a citizen, at least the hetaira could hope to captivate one by her wit
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and beauty, or, if a slave, to win the purchase of her freedom, which was the very thing that
young men were warned against: squandering their fortune on a seductive woman. It is this
tension between the perceived rapacity of hetairai and the ruinous infatuation which they
inspired that provides the conventional themes for much Greek literature.
Lucian satirizes the tormented relationship between hetairai and their admirers. For the
courtesan, there are only promises, which prompts the rebuke of a friend: "He had never
given you so much as a penny, or a dress, or a pair of shoes, or a bottle of scent. Always
there are excuses and promises and hopes for the distant future....Aren't you ashamed that
you're the only courtesan without an earring, a necklace, or a lace wrap?" Another's advice is
equally critical, "You spoilt him by loving him too much, and letting him see it. You
shouldn't make very much of him at all. Men become proud when they see that....take my
advice and shut him out once or twice. Then you'll find him burning with passion and really
mad in his turn for your love."
In a collection of imaginary letters purportedly written by Athenians in the fourth century
BC, Alciphron (c.200 AD) says much the same thing.
"And so it is one of the chief tricks of those who practise our profession to keep
postponing the moment of enjoyment and, by arousing hopes, to keep their
lovers in their power....Well, then, we courtesans must at one time be 'occupied,'
or again be 'unwell,' or must sing, or play the flute, or dance, or get the dinner
ready, or decorate the room; blocking the way to those intimate pleasures that
otherwise would surely wither fast, so that our lovers' passions, made more
inflammable by the delays that intervene, may burst into the hotter flame..."
As for the hapless suitor, he is frustrated, as well, and his tears haughtily dismissed.
"I wish that a courtesan's house were maintained on tears; for then I should be
getting along splendidly, since I am supplied with plenty of them by you! But
the present fact is that I need money, clothes, finery, maidservants; on these the
whole ordering of my life depends. I have no ancestral estate at Myrrhinus, nor
stake in the silver mines: I have only my petty fees and these wretched offerings
that my stupid admirers bring me with their sighs."
In another letter, Alciphron compares the sophist and the courtesan. His heroine replies:
"Yet how much better and more religious are we! We do not say there are no
gods; on the contrary, when our lovers take oath to their affection for us, we
believe them....We teach young men just as well as they do. Judge, if you will,
between Aspasia the courtesan and Socrates the sophist, and consider which of
them trained the better men. You will find Pericles the pupil of the one and
Critias [a notorious oligarch] the pupil of the other....The deity gives us no long
time to live; do not wake up to find you've wasted yours on riddles and
nonsense."
Hetairai had existed in Athens at least since the time of Solon, and the most attractive and
talented were celebrated by name. Among them all, the most famous was Aspasia, the
mistress of Pericles.
If the rhetoric of Aspasia was celebrated, then so was the beauty of Phrynê, the mistress and
model of Praxiteles. Pliny relates the story (which likely is anecdotal) that the sculptor carved
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two figures of Aphrodite in marble, one draped, the other nude. Both were for sale, each for
the same price. The one that was clothed was chosen by the inhabitants of Cos, who
considered it to be their only decent choice. The other was purchased by the citizens of
Cnidus, where it "achieved an immeasurably greater reputation. Later King Nicomedes was
anxious to buy it from them, promising so to discharge all the state's vast debts. The
Cnidians, however, preferred to suffer anything but this, and rightly so; for with this statue
Praxiteles made Cnidus a famous city." Pliny says that the shrine in which Aphrodite stood
was completely open so as to allow the statue to be viewed from every side and that, of all
the other works there, it alone received the attention of those who sailed to the island to see
it.
As in the Symposium of Plato and Xenophon, where the drinking party is the setting for
philosophical discussion, so Athenaeus (fl. AD 200) uses the framework of the symposium
for literary and antiquarian exposition. In Book XIII of the Deipnosophists (Sophists at
Dinner), he relates the collected witty sayings (chreia) of famous hetairai and anecdotes
about them. Once, for example, when Phrynê was asked for her favors, she demanded a mina
in payment. "'Too much' was the reply. 'Didn't you, the other day, stay with a stranger after
you had received only two gold pieces?' 'Well then, said she, 'you too wait until I feel like
indulging myself, and I will accept that amount.'"
Athenaeus (XIII.590) says that Phrynê was the model for the Aphrodite of Cnidus, and that,
on the pedestal of his statue of Eros, Praxiteles declared that it portrayed his passion for
Phrynê, to whom it was dedicated. He also was said to have executed a gilded statue of her at
Delphi, which Pausanias remarks upon in his description of Greece. Once, when Phrynê was
accused of impiety (the penalty for which was death), she was defended by Hypereides, who
also was her lover and considered by the ancients to be second only to his contemporary
Demosthenes as an orator. At the climax of his speech, Hypereides tore away her gown to
reveal her breasts to the magistrates, who felt such fear for one who seemed to be the
handmaiden of Aphrodite, herself, that Phrynê was acquitted. (Quintillian, II.15.9, has
Phrynê, herself, expose her whole body by drawing aside her gown.)
(Alciphron addresses one of his letters to Hypereides, expressing the appreciation of all
courtesans for his defense of Phrynê. "You have not merely saved a good mistress for
yourself but you have put the rest of us in a mood to reward you on her account. And
furthermore, if you would write out the speech that you composed in Phrynê's defense, then
we courtesans would readily and truly set up your statue in gold wherever in Greece you
wish.")
Although Phrynê always wore her tunic closely wrapped around her body in public and did
not frequent the baths, she was said to have removed her clothes at the festival of Poseidon,
loosened her hair, and stepped naked into the sea (Athenaeus, XIII.590). Praxiteles was said
to have witnessed the event, as did the painter Apelles (fl. 352-308 BC), who was inspired to
portray her as "Aphrodite Anadyomene" (Rising from the Sea). "Made famous by the Greek
verses which sing its praises," says Pliny, it later was shipped to Rome by Augustus, who,
because of the Julian claim to be descended from the goddess, dedicated it in a temple to
Caesar, his adoptive father.
Her great rival was Laïs, of whom Alciphron reports, "...when she has on her clothes her face
is wondrous fair, and when she has taken them off her whole body appears as fair as her
face." The beautiful Laïs was the daughter, says Plutarch, of the courtesan Timandra and the
renowned Alcibiades, whose own physical beauty often was remarked upon. The mistress of
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Demosthenes and Diogenes the Cynic, Athenaeus relates that Apelles saw Laïs when she still
was a young girl, carrying water from the fountain, and brought her to a symposium. To
those who jeered at him for bringing a child, not a hetaira, he replied that she soon would be
a beautiful women, herself, the delight of men.
And so she became. Athenaeus recounts that artists came to paint her bosom, and how the
hedonist Aristippus, who spent several months every year with Laïs, was reproached for
giving her so much money, whereas Diogenes the Cynic paid nothing for her favors. His
reply was that "I give Laïs many bounties that I may enjoy her myself, not that I may prevent
another from doing so." When Diogenes, himself, criticized Aristippus for his behavior, he
retorted that, just as Diogenes did not object to living in a house in which others have lived or
to sailing on a ship in which others have sailed, so he should not find fault in his consorting
with a woman who had been enjoyed by other men.
As Aspasia and Phrynê both had been brought to trial, so was another hetaira, Neaera. But, in
this case, the transcript, which records certain events that had occurred thirty years before,
survives in a speech, Against Neaera (ca. 340 BC), attributed to Demosthenes. It provides a
reminder that the life of a hetaira had a reality that is not conveyed in the anecdotes and
witticisms told of them.
Neaera had been purchased as a slave and, while still a very young girl, worked as a
prostitute in Corinth. So desirable was Neaera that, eventually, she was bought for thirty
minas by two of her customers. They kept her for themselves until they were about to marry
and then offered Neaera her freedom, which she purchased through the donations of other
lovers, one of whom took her to Athens. But, when he discovered that she had been with
other men, including several slaves, at a symposium, she was obliged to leave, taking her
clothes, jewelry, and two maid servants with her. Eventually, Neaera had children, including
a daughter, and found another lover, who returned with her to Athens. There, she pretended
to be a respectable Athenian woman, blackmailing customers who thought they had
committed adultery with the wife of a citizen. The status of her daughter also was concealed,
and twice she was married to unsuspecting citizens, one of whom was king-archon, which
meant that the daughter, herself, participated in some of the city's most sacred rites. When her
old lover appeared to claim Neaera and property she had stolen from him, an arrangement
was made for Neaera to live with both men, each of whom, it was agreed, would spend an
equal amount of time with her.
The outcome of the trial is not known but, if found guilty of concealing her true status as a
resident alien, Neaera was at risk of being sold again as a slave, and her paramour, the
confiscation of his property and the loss of citizenship. Such was the threat to the claims of
legitimacy that defined Athenian women within society.
Athenaeus explains the seductive allure of the hetaira:
"Besides, is not a 'companion' more kindly than a wedded wife? Yes, far more,
and with very good reason. For the wife, protected by the law, stays at home in
proud contempt, whereas the harlot knows that a man must be bought by her
fascinations or she must go out and find another."
Two roles: the seductive allure of the hetaira and the domestic comfort of the married wife, a
dichotomy characterized by Demosthenes in his speech against Neaera.
"For this is what living with a woman in marriage is: for a man to beget children
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by her and present his sons to his fellow clansmen and members of his district
and to give daughters as his own in marriage to their husbands. Mistresses we
have for pleasure, concubines for daily service to our bodies, but wives for the
procreation of legitimate children and to be faithful guardians of the household."
In classical literature, there are witty hetairai and ones of divine beauty, those who are
generous with wealth and others, such as Thaïs, who destroyed it. But, for all these
portrayals, it must be remembered that virtually none were citizens of Athens; many were
slaves who had been purchased and trained from childhood in such a life. Whatever power
they had came from their ability to be recognized by the powerful men with whom they
consorted, who would love them and made them their mistresses or concubines.
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