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Curley 1 Nonverbal Communication in Seinfeld Although it is an area that we regularly overlook, nonverbal communication is essential in the function of everyday life. It is a relationship that can often be related to in Seinfeld, a popular televised sitcom. Built primarily around the lives of four main characters, Seinfeld, unlike many other television series, really has no overall story, sometimes being sarcastically labeled as the show about nothing (Seinfeld). Instead each episode tends to focus on human interaction and day to day problems that the average person encounters everyday. With this comes the importance of nonverbal communication and how much of a part it plays in the show’s realistic situations. As our textbook points out, there are many different types of nonverbal communication. Everyday we do body movements and facial expressions that we wouldn’t even notice unless someone came up and pointed them out to us (Cherry). In Seinfeld, the main characters Jerry, Elaine, George, and Kramer also use nonverbal communication and like us, don’t even notice that they are doing it. This subject is even addressed during an episode were Kramer decides to go on a vow of silence, saying that he will have no trouble communicating because for humans, 94% of communication is nonverbal (The Cartoon). For example, take the face and eyes; two features that the book concludes as the most “noticeable” parts of the human body (Adler 187). Whenever a character is trying to conceal a secret or a problem in Seinfeld, they always try to avoid speaking, but they don’t realize that their face is what truly gives them away. In a conversation between Jerry and Elaine, Jerry is trying to hide that everyone thinks that Elaine is a horrible dancer (The Little Kicks). When Elaine confronts Jerry about this he doesn’t speak and tries to look away which automatically shows exactly what he is thinking. Even though he never said anything, Jerry’s facial expressions gave Curley 2 Elaine the same communication nonverbally. Their are numerous situations like this in Seinfeld, mainly because the show is dependent on face to face conversations. In the U.S. we see eye contact as a means to show other people that we are listening to them and are genuinely interested in what they are saying. However, when we are trying to avoid talking about something, it is our nature to look away and pretend that we’re not involved. The study of eyes (oculesics) would reveal that Jerry and Elaine followed common eye patterns; Jerry’s lack of eye contact shows that he is avoiding something, whereas Elaine’s focused eye contact show that she is concerned. Like eye contact and facial expressions, body movement is often hand in hand when it comes to nonverbal communication. The majority of these movements are called (illustrators) and they help us demonstrate what we are saying. During the introduction of Seinfeld episodes, clips of Jerry’s comedic stand-up are normally shown during the opening credits. If his body movements are looked at closely, we can see that he consistently uses illustrators to help him speak. In other scenes, characters will also use motions that look like they are fidgeting with something (manipulators). Like our book explains, playing with your hair or scratching your nose when you’re being questioned can indicate that you’re nervous and uncomfortable (Adler 189). However, the book also goes on to say that these movements can also be a signal that a person is completely relaxed (189). The character George constantly prides himself in his ability to be a good liar. Although he frequently deceives people, every once in a while he will get himself into a position that he finds uncomfortable (The Jimmy). Like anyone else who is nervous, George’s natural reaction is to unknowingly use manipulators. It is these types of movements that always show viewers that he isn’t comfortable and is a good indication that he is not telling the truth. Curley 3 Other types of nonverbal communication include a person’s proximity and territory. Sometimes we consider the area around us as our own personal space and we will act negatively if we feel it is being violated (territory). The four distances of space are known as (proximity) are our public distance, social distance, personal distance, and intimate distance, which all range from over 25 feet to less than 2. Whenever the character Elaine is approached by men she doesn’t like, it is obvious that she wants to keep them at a social distance. If the man over steps his bounds in her personal or intimate distance, Elaine will always try to get away or find an excuse to move somewhere else. Contrary to this, if Elaine is approached by someone that she is attracted to or is interested in, she doesn’t mind it when this person tries to get in her more personal space; sometimes even encouraging it. So proximity and territory often go hand in hand with each other. Territory is also an important thing when it comes to the male characters of Seinfeld. An example would be during one episode where Kramer and Jerry sit down and watch a movie. Although there are two couches, Kramer decides to sit on the same one as Jerry, which attracts Jerry’s attention instantly (The Label Maker). For Jerry there is another couch and Kramer is now in is territory so he feels that something is wrong. Jerry then reacted on this and asked Kramer to move over to the other couch. The book describes our idea of territory as a type of protective bubble that will get our attention if we are not within a comfortable distance. Some of the signs that we feel our territory is being violated are body movements, gestures, or just moving somewhere else. For both Jerry and Elaine, they found that moving or getting the other person to move was the most reasonable decision. Something that corresponds with territory is the physical attractiveness of the other person or people around you. After all, no one really minds when a person they are attracted too moves close to them. If we find someone attractive we are more likely to accept them if they Curley 4 come within our private space. According to the book attractive people are also thought of as “being more sensitive, kind, strong, sociable, and interesting” (Adler 198). This would give reason to why we automatically tolerate attractive people over people who are not as good looking. It is the same way in Seinfeld, no matter which character it is they will always go up and talk to somebody if they find them attractive, but they will also go to desperate measures to try to avoid talking to someone that they find unappealing. Touch is also an aspect that must be included when we think about nonverbal communication. The study of touch (haptics) has consistently revealed that people who touch when they are communicating will have a better influence on the person being touched (Adler 190). This is not to be mistaken with a harmful trespass that will make a person react negatively. It is more of a gesture that complements what someone is saying. I have found that whenever I’m discussing something that takes persuasion or an explanation it is always more pleasant when it is accompanied by a light touch on the shoulder. Situations in Seinfeld are the same way; the characters know that people react positively to touch so they will execute them accordingly. An example would be when Elaine is trying to get Jerry to see her version of a story. She talks and simultaneously touches his arm to try to make him comply (The Little Kicks). According to our text women are often more comfortable with touching men than men touching women. For men it is common to touch their male friends more than their female ones because with women there is always the danger of unwanted touching (Adler 191). Not all nonverbal communication is completely nonverbal; (paralanguage) is a term used to describe the characteristics of a message (191). This would include the vocal rate, pronunciation, pitch tone, volume, and emphasis of a message (191). One of the most overlooked aspects of paralanguage are (disfluencies), pauses in communication that are sometimes made up Curley 5 of words like “uh” of “um” (192). It is difficult to explain without watching the show, but Elaine has problems with this all the time. Unlike the character George, Elaine is horrible at lying and pauses in her speech or lack of confidence in her volume are always telltale signs that she is struggling. I have never thought about it before, but I can’t neglect the importance of paralanguage. Say we have a text message that says “yeah I had a good time”. When we read this without hearing it being spoken to us we have to decided on what to interpret; did the person really enjoy themselves, or are they being sarcastic? Paralanguage eliminates any significant confusion within a message. If we have the same message said at a low volume with a hesitant sigh before it, then we automatically know that they obviously didn’t have a good time. However if the message is said with confidence and a confirming tone then we know that the person is genuine in their response. Nonverbal communication is not something that one can pick up over night. Experts have put a lot of effort studying and determining the components of nonverbal communication in humans. As the book reveals facial expressions alone have an endless amount of possibilities making them extremely different to organize and understand (Adler 188). The underlying fact is that we can understand what we already know and use during our conversation. If we use something consistently then we are going to be able to identify when some is using the same communication with us. Although almost everybody already knows about facial expression and body movement, the book also covered other interesting characteristics that are not thought of as common knowledge. Touch, paralanguage, proxemics, territory, and physical attractiveness are all types of nonverbal communication that we use everyday, but never notice. I have discovered that I, myself consistently use these things but have never truly thought about them until I wrote Curley 6 this paper. 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