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“A key message within our
sexuality education programme
is the need to delay the start of
sexual activity.”
Ministry of Education’s Sexuality
Education: Revised Guide for Principals,
Boards of Trustees, and Teachers, 2002
Page 30
“Parents and caregivers
are the first and most
important sexuality
educators of their children.
Sexuality education ought
to be taught at home.”
Family Planning
“Only YOU should
control your sex life.
Make sure it’s your
choice if, or when, you
sleep with someone.
Make sure you’re
really ready.”
“Only YOU
know when it is
right for YOU.”
Family Planning
“I think you’re ready to
have sex if you feel it’s
right. If you like hear little
voices…you know, - don’t
do it, don’t do it –… you
should hold off. But you
know, if it’s like ‘yeah I’m
ready’, then OK.”
“There is no ‘right’ age to
have sex. The age someone
chooses to have sex is
different for everyone. It
needs to be when it feels
right for that individual
person.”
Q&A - For pubertal-aged young people.
Family Planning Association
Information for Parents &
Caregivers
“It is important children feel that
sex and sexuality are a normal
part of family life…”
“…Think of your child’s sexual
development as a positive,
natural part of growing up.”
• “Contraception – what options works
best for both of you? Remember, it’s
best to use condoms AND lube AND
contraception until you are in a longterm committed relationship.”
Oral Sex
“Oral sex is when you use your mouth to
stimulate your partner’s genitals… You can get a
Sexually Transmissible Infection (STI) from oral
sex. It is important to use a condom or oral dam
if you are going to give oral sex of any sort.”
Rainbow Youth & Family
Planning Ass’n –
www.curious.org.nz
Blowjobs
Mouths are soft and warm which
makes having your penis sucked
feel really good....
Rainbow Youth & Family
Planning Ass’n –
www.curious.org.nz
Is anal sex important?
•
Because such a big deal is made by heterosexuals about men having intercourse with women, a lot of people think that anal
intercourse is the only way gay and bisexual men can have real sex with each other. This isn't true. Anal intercourse is just
one way of having sex. There's nothing special about it apart from that it is the sexual activity that carries the most risk of
HIV transmission.
•
Your anus can be sexually stimulating just like your penis. This is because it has a lot of sensitive nerve-endings around the
outside and also inside it, just like the nerves in the head of your penis. When these nerve endings are being touched or
stroked it can be a real turn on. You may find you like anal sex the best of all or you might not like it much at all. It's up to
you. However, the most important thing to remember is that you must use a condom and lube to protect yourself from HIV
and reduce the likelihood of getting other STIs.
•
There are some men who only enjoy being the "top" (doing the f**king), and some men who only enjoy being the bottom
(getting f**ked). But most like it both ways. It's good taking turns at being top and bottom.
The number one rule is to use a condom and plenty of water or silicone based lube for your's and your partner's well-being.
Be happy with your ass
You have probably been told as you have grown up that you’re a** is a dirty place and shouldn't be touched. This is silly. People
should be happy with all parts of their bodies, and if they aren't, it might mean they aren't happy with themselves generally.
It is true that you get rid of waste out of your anus, but that's not the only thing that it's good for. You p**s out your penis, but you
can do more things with your c**k than that. Your anus is only dirty when it hasn't been cleaned - just like any other part of your
body. Also, by using condoms and lube there is protection from all sorts of bacteria as well as HIV and STI's that may be residing
deep inside.
www.curious.org.nz
Be happy with you’re a**
You have probably been told ...that
your a** is a dirty place and shouldn't
be touched. This is silly. People should
be happy with all parts of their
bodies...
www.curious.org.nz
It is true that you get rid of waste
out of your anus, but that's not
the only thing that it's good for.
You p**s out your penis, but you
can do more things with your
c**k than that.
www.curious.org.nz
There are some men who only enjoy
being the "top" (doing the f**king),
and some men who only enjoy being
the bottom (getting f**ked). But
most like it both ways. It's good
taking turns at being top and
bottom.
www.curious.org.nz
Your anus is only dirty when it hasn't
been cleaned - just like any other part
of your body. ....
“Gender identity is a person’s own sense of
identification as male or female… You
might feel like you weren’t born with the
right body, or even feel somewhere in
between. Or even be “gender queer”, this
is where you’re one gender or the other
and don’t feel like you completely identify
with that gender or the other.
“These are great at helping
to protect you from STIs.”
“Used correctly,
condoms are up to
98% effective.”
“If used correctly every time,
condoms are 90-98% effective.
They are easy to use, easy to
carry, your best protection
against STIs and come in many
different sizes, colours,
flavours, and textures for extra
stimulation! Cheapest from the
doctor, Family Planning or
Sexual Health Clinic where you
can get heaps for $3!”
Food & Drug Administration
“Condoms may be more likely to break
during anal intercourse….Even if the
condom doesn’t break, anal
intercourse is very risky…”
Surgeon General C Everett Koop
“Condoms provide some
protection, but anal intercourse is
simply too dangerous to
practice.”
“... emphasise
protecting and
enjoying themselves
without worry, rather
than the risks of some
behaviour.”
(emphasis added)
Family Planning