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Taming the tongue • Bill Bright
We’ve all met people with a sharp, critical tongue. Picture this scene. A couple from your church are having problems, and they have chosen to confide in you. The man is big, a real outdoorsman, and works hard on a construction job. The wife is petite and frail. But she is as skilled with her tongue as David was with his slingshot against
Goliath. You’re not with them long until the man bristles at his wife’s verbal jabs. “I just can’t stand it when Karen
puts me down in such a sarcastic way!” he complains. “Oh, great big Mac,” she digs, “can’t take care of himself!”
Mac purses his lips and shakes his head. “I don’t think I can take this much longer. I love my wife, but she’s killing me
with her tongue!”
Often the hostility in our hearts reveals itself through our words and actions. The word “tongue” is mentioned
ninety-three times in the Bible, often referring to its destructive power:
The lash of the tongue (Job 5:21).
Your sin prompts your mouth; you adopt the tongue of the crafty (Job 15:5).
Though evil is sweet in his mouth and he hides it under his tongue (Job 20:12).
A deceitful tongue crushes the spirit (Proverbs 15:4).
Their tongue is a deadly arrow (Jeremiah 9:8).
The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole
course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell (James 3:6).
No man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison (James 3:8).
Poisonous Words
James goes on to say, “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been
made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be” (James
3:9,10).
Few things are more self-contaminating than poisoned words that spring from the depths of a bitter heart. If we are
to please God and maintain a testimony that brings glory to our Lord, we must learn to control what we say. James
says, “If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and
his religion is worthless” (James 1:26).
How often through an unkind word have we borne unfaithful witness to God’s love and forgiveness!
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A Test of Love
A test of our love for God comes in the manner of our speech. Can we say with the psalmist, “His praise was on
my tongue” (Psalm 66:17), “My tongue will tell of your righteous acts all day long” (Psalm 71:24), or “May my tongue
sing of your word” (Psalm 119:172)? Will we follow the wisdom of Solomon who said, “The tongue of the wise
brings healing” (Proverbs 12:18) and “The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life” (Proverbs 15:4)? And can we
say with Samuel, “His word was on my tongue” (2 Samuel 23:2)? The words of Peter hold good advice for us today:
“Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech” (1
Peter 3:10). This takes self-control.
Key to Self-Control
Self-control is vital to a fruitful Christian life. After counseling with thousands of people through the years, I am
convinced that an undisciplined Christian cannot live a victorious, abundant life, or be an effective witness. The
key to self-control is being filled with the Holy Spirit. The reason most of us fail in self-control, is that we try to
do it in our own strength. You and I know from experience that, apart from God, self-discipline in our tongue is
impossible. But “when the Holy Spirit controls our lives, He will produce this kind of fruit in us: love, joy, peace,...
self-control” (Galatians 5:22, TLB). We must develop and exercise self-control through daily dependence on the
Lord Jesus Christ and the power of His Holy Spirit. I encourage you to study this lesson carefully. Prayerfully apply
the principles you will learn to your everyday life, and invite the Holy Spirit to take control of your tongue, that you
may bring blessing to those around you and be a fruitful witness.
Bill Bright. Copyright 1971, 1998 NewLife Publications, Campus Crusade for Christ. All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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