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Communication
Is it possible to not communicate?
In what ways do we communicate?
Communication
Is..
• The process
of exchanging
thoughts,
messages, or
information
between 2 or
more people.
How is communication altered?
• 1 person stops paying attention.
• Speaker is unclear in their delivery.
• “I can do those dishes”
I = capable
Can = give me a chance
Do = can complete it
Those = particular idea
Dishes = defines what is being done
• What about through telephone, e-mail, or
texting?
Good Communication Must
Have…..
• Looking
• Listening
• Responding
• Or else we get…..
Am I a Good Communicator?
Levels of Communication (SPV)
“You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can
by what others say about him.”
--Leo Aikman
• Event
Superficial
• Influence
Personal
• Personal Quality
Validating
• Compliment
Levels of Communication
1. Make a small circle with the groups
I have organized.
2. Everyone must participate.
3. No talking with other groups.
4. Everyone must listen with their
eyes.
5. When I call time you must stop
where you are.
6. If you have not finished the
previous round, finish it and then
move on.
Round #1
• Share an event
you have
experienced.
• Example:
Round #2
• Describe a
situation that has
proven to be a
good
INFLUENCE on
your life.
• Example:
Round #3
• Describe a quality
you already have
that will make you
a better parent or
spouse.
• Example:
Round #4
• You must give a
compliment to one
other person in
your group.
• Example
Levels of Communication
Questions
1. Which was more difficult to share in group?
Events, Influences, Personal qualities,
Compliments. Why?
2. What are some reactions that occurred in your
group? Explain why these occurred.
3. Why is it more difficult to share personal qualities
and compliments.
Levels of Communication “SPV”
Superficial
Small Talk (weather, home,
Personal
school, food, etc.)
Communication involving
Communication making up
opening up and talking about
the majority of our
feelings, beliefs and opinions
communication. Weakens
that mean something to you.
Relationships. WHY USE?
Strengthens relationships
Validating
Communication reinforcing people’s feelings about
themselves by 1st accepting their feelings, 2nd
understanding them, and 3rd to nurturing them.
Shows an understanding and strengthens relationship.
1. Which Round (levels of communication)
must a relationship strive for in order to
grow? Why?
2. Why can’t a relationship remain stable for
an extended period of time if they
communicate in a Round 1 (superficial
state)?
Video Clips
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______________•Validating
Dumb and Dumber
•Superficial
David Letterman
•Personal
Goonies
Pacifier
Geezer Club