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Nonverbal 1 UNIT 2 NON-VERBAL AND INTERCULTURAL COMMUNICATION 2.1 Importance of non-verbal communication 2.2 Personal appearance 2.3 Facial expressions 2.4 Movement 2.5 Posture 2.6 Gestures 2.7 Eye contact 2.8 voice 2.9 Beliefs and customs 2.10 Worldview and Attitude Eyes Face Communication Is the way we interact Body Voices Words with fellow humans Nonverbal Communication Nonverbal communication includes all unwritten and unspoken messages, both intentional and unintentional. Nonverbal Behaviour Nonverbal communication is defined as the way in which people communicate, intentionally or unintentionally, without words. Non-verbal cues include facial expressions, tones of voice, gestures, body position and movement, the use of touch, and eye gaze. © 2007 Pearson Education Canada Nonverbal Behaviour The primary uses of Nonverbal behaviour are: Expressing emotion Conveying attitudes Communicating personality traits Facilitating verbal communication © 2007 Pearson Education Canada What is Nonverbal Communication? “Messages expressed by nonlinguistic means.” ◦ Includes silent behaviors, environment, artifacts, and vocal intonation ◦ Is a powerful mode of communication Definition “All communication other than that involving words and language” “Bodily communication, other than words and language” A person can stop speaking, but he cannot stop communicating with his body “We will try to persuade with our words, but if our words fail, we will try to persuade with out acts.” —Martin Luther King, Jr. NON-VERBAL symbols are four times more effective than VERBAL ones Color Influences Communication Yellow cheers and elevate moods Red excite and stimulates In some cultures black suggests mourning Blue comforts and soothes In some cultures white suggests purity 12 Nonverbal Communication Verbal Communication The words we use Bodily actions and vocal qualities that typically accompany a verbal message 13 What does this symbol mean to you? In the United States it is a symbol for good job In Germany the number one In Japan the number five In Ghana an insult In Malaysia the thumb is used to point rather than a finger 14 Types of Nonverbal Communication Many of our nonverbal behaviors employ kinesics, the use of body motion to communicate nonverbally Types of Nonverbal Communication Facial Expressions ◦ Most nonverbal experts believe that your face is the richest source of nonverbal clues What emotions do these facial expressions portray? Types of Nonverbal Communication Eye Contact ◦ We seem to use prolonged eye contact to compensate for lack of physical proximity ◦ Eye contact communicates involvement and interest Types of Nonverbal Communication Gestures ◦ Gestures are defined as a significant movement of the body that expresses a message to a receiver (Thomas 1991) Types of Nonverbal Communication Gestures ◦ Using Gestures to Regulate Interactions We use gestures to initiate, coordinate, and terminate communication ◦ Using Gestures to Adjust or Adapt We also use gestures called adaptors to adjust or adapt to our environment ◦ Using Gestures to Illustrate Speaker’s gestures, or illustrators, are important communicative tools that emphasize, accent, or clarify our verbal communication Types of Nonverbal Communication Proxemics ◦ The study of space is called proxemics Personal Space 1. The intimate zone is the closest space and extends approximately 18 inches form your body 2. The personal zone extends from 18 inches to four feet from your body 3. The social zone extends four to eight feet from your body 4. The public zone extends beyond eight feet from your body Territoriality is the human need to mark and defend space Space / Proxemics Personal Space 1. Intimate distance 2. Personal distance 3. Social distance 4. Public distance 1. 2. 3. 4. You are here Types of Nonverbal Communication Touch ◦ Haptics is the use of touch to communicate nonverbally Types of Nonverbal Communication Vocalics ◦ Vocalics is the use of the voice to communicate nonverbally Probably the most important aspect of vocalics is voice quality 1. Rate is how fast you talk 2. Volume is the loudness of your voice 3. Inflection is the vocal emphasis you place on words Types of Nonverbal Communication Odor ◦ Odors are sometimes forgotten nonverbal cues, our sensory environment is full of pleasant and unpleasant smells that communicate a variety of messages ◦ Culture plays a big role in what smells communicate Types of Nonverbal Communication Time ◦ Chronemics is the use of time to communicate Time as an Indicator of Money and Status Time is a strong indicator of power and status in our society Time as an Indicator of Competence Cultural Views of Time Many cultures view time as circular, in which events happen concurrently, called polychromic Types of Nonverbal Communication Artifacts ◦ Artifacts is the use of objects to communicate nonverbally Nonverbal can be… •Perceived by sender or receiver, or •Intended as a message by the sender, or •Interpreted by the receiver as intended. (Trenholm & Jensen, 2000) Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication Nonverbal Communication Exists ◦ You can interpret others’ feelings ◦ No formal training needed to do this Nonverbal Behavior Has Communicative Value ◦ You cannot not communicate (think about this) ◦ We aren’t always aware of what we are communicating nonverbally ◦ Not everyone can interpret nonverbal clues Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication Nonverbal communication assists with: ◦ Identity management the Presenting Self How we want others to view us ◦ Defining relationships ◦ Conveying emotions ◦ Difficult to convey ideas nonverbally Verbal vs. Nonverbal Nonverbal communication operates on multiple channels Nonverbal communication is continuous and never ending Nonverbal communication can be unconscious Functions of Nonverbal Accenting ◦ Pointing your finger at someone when making a point Regulating ◦ Taking turns speaking has a pattern that we understand when it is our turn to talk, e.g. pauses, tone of voice Contradicting ◦ Mixed messages ◦ Nonverbal message is believed more than verbal message Deceiving ◦ Not all deception is self-serving or malicious – Face saving ◦ High self-monitors are usually better at deception ◦ People whose jobs require them to act differently than they feel are better at it: actors, lawyers, diplomats, salespeople Functions of Nonverbal Repeating ◦ Emblems: deliberate nonverbal behaviors that have precise meanings known to everyone within a culture group. “Wave” or “Nod” Substituting ◦ Emblems can replace a verbal message Complementing ◦ Nonverbal behavior matches verbal message Sincere apology Tone of voice and appropriate facial expression ◦ Illustrators Scratching head when trying to think of something MODE OF NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION Personal Appearance Facial Expression Movement Voice Posture Gesture 1. Personal Appearance The way a person appears (clothes, hair, articles worn or carried) or the display of the human body and its apparel May indicate occupation, culture, status, or group membership The objects a person chooses to have, carry, or wear may also nonverbally communicate something about that person A person's use of objects may give clues to internal state (emotions) For example, clicking a pen might be from nervousness, or tapping something loudly on a desk could be anger What is a professional image? “The set of qualities and characteristics that represent perceptions of your competence and character as judged by your key constituents (i.e., clients, superiors, subordinates, colleagues).” (Roberts, AMR, 2008) Components of a professional image The image you project in the world of work Consists of: ◦ Personal Appearance Clothing Grooming ◦ Personal behavior Manners & Etiquette Communication effectiveness Remember … Judgments are made about people based on the professional image they display as a result of appearance and behavior. This occurs before the individual’s level of competence or performance is determined. An impactful first impression Think of someone who made a great first impression on you… What did they do…what did they say…how did they look…what was it that make that made that great first impression on you… Making your first impression Being aware of yourself and your surroundings, and having a GOOD professional image is key… …because you NEVER get a second chance to make a first impression!!!! Projecting a professional image matters Affects: ◦ Self-confidence ◦ Interaction with peers ◦ Customers ◦ Supervisors ◦ Ultimate success in your career mobility Attributes of a professional image Four main attributes: ◦ Appropriate professional appearance ◦ Use of correct manners and etiquette ◦ Appropriate personal behavior ◦ Effective communications Appropriate professional appearance Consists of professional dress and grooming Can enhance your authority, promote respect, aid in promotion, promote your advancement opportunities Involves selecting appropriate clothing Let’s see some examples… Men’s Business Professional Men’s Business Causal Women’s Business Professional Women’s Business Casual Professional personal behavior Respecting the organization and its rules Being a loyal employee Conducting yourself and business in an ethical manner Assuming responsibility Valuing diversity Manners and etiquette Making introductions and appropriate greetings Being able to initiate and maintain conversations Respecting and valuing the differences of others Knowing appropriate dining rules and protocol Extending courteous behavior to others Knowing how to behave in difficult situations 2. Facial Expressions Human Face Face – Organ of Emotion Face – Offers Powerful Clues Face – Reveals Important Truths Face – Provides Clues to Feelings Face – Shows Age, Humor, Likes, Dislikes Face – Shows Attention or Lack of Attention With Eye Contact Face – Most Important Human Art Object Sadness/Grief Happiness/Joy Fear/Anxiety Embarrassment/Surprise Anger/Frustration Nervousness Laughter Loneliness Winning/Losing Pain Shame Ekman and Friesen (1976) faces Happiness Fear Surprise Sadness Disgust Anger Facial Expressions • We can produce more than 1,000 different facial expressions. • Facial expressions allow non-speakers to contribute to conversations. • Lack of eye contact may be seen as rudeness, nervousness, or dishonesty. • Eye contact norms are culturally determined. • Eye contact influences interaction. Which Baby is Which? Anger, Disgust, Fear, Interest, Joy, Surprise, Sadness Joy Anger Disgust Surprise Sadness Which Baby is Which? Anger, Disgust, Fear, Interest, Joy, Surprise, Sadness Interest Fear Nonverbal Behaviour Facial Expressions of Emotions Facial expressions are the most significant channel of nonverbal communication. Charles Darwin believed that the primary emotions conveyed by the face are universal: All humans encode emotions in the same way. All humans can decode emotions with equal accuracy. © 2007 Pearson Education Canada Nonverbal Behaviour Facial Expressions of Emotions Encode: to express or emit nonverbal behaviour, such as smiling or patting someone on the back Decode: to interpret the meaning of the nonverbal behaviour other people express, such as deciding that a pat on the back is an expression of condescension and not kindness. © 2007 Pearson Education Canada Nonverbal Behaviour Facial Expressions of Emotions Researchers have theorized that facial expressions are universal for certain emotions: Anger, happiness, surprise, fear, disgust, sadness, contempt, embarrassment, heroism, humor/amusement, love, peace, and wonder. © 2007 Pearson Education Canada Nonverbal Behaviour Facial Expressions of Emotions Facial expressions may sometimes be hard to interpret accurately because: People may try to appear less emotional than they are. People may display blends of multiple affects simultaneously. Affect Blend is a facial expression in which one part of the face is registering one emotion and another part of the face is registering a different emotion. © 2007 Pearson Education Canada 3. Gesture A gesture is a form of non-verbal communication made with a part of the body, used instead of or in combination with verbal communication. The language of gesture is rich in ways for individuals to express a variety of feelings and thoughts, from contempt and hostility to approval and affection. Gestures Gestures and body language communicate as effectively as words- maybe even more effectively. We use gestures daily, almost instinctively, from beckoning to a waiter, or punctuating a business presentation with visual signals to airport ground attendants guiding an airline pilot into the jetway or a parent using a whole dictionary of gestures to teach (or preach to) a child. As the global village continues to shrink and cultures collide, it is essential for all of us to become more sensitive, more aware, and more observant to the myriad motions, gestures, and body language that surround us each day. And as many of us cross over cultural borders, it would be fitting for us to respect, learn, and understand more about the effective, yet powerful "silent language" of gestures. Gesture The most famous type of gestures are the so-called emblems or quotable gestures . These are culture specific gestures that can be used as replacement for words. Communities have repertoires of such gestures. Types of gestures Hand gesture Body Gesture Head / face gesture - Facial Expressions -Eye- Rolling -Nodding -Head Bobble -Head Shaking -Bent Head -Pointing By Chin -Pointing By Lips -Greeting By Nod -Thumb The Nose Types of gestures in terms of message about or from self Positive gesture Negative gesture Signs of nervousness Aggressive gesture Rude gesture Self- importance Lateral gesture A FEW GESTURES AND THEIR MEANINGS A hand over the mouth whilst talking indicates deceit. A desire to try and stop the words coming out of the mouth. It can be a quick touch to the mouth, or a sustained rubbing across the mouth. Move the hand away from the mouth, lower down the face, under the chin, and this would be positive evaluation. The finger across the top of the lip can be seen with the hand in many positions around the face. They all indicate critical analysis. Shall I? Shan't I? Will he? Won't he? Stroking of the beard. Normally seen on men! Seriously, irrespective of the beard, the gesture is an evaluation signal. Generally a positive evaluation. It's a time for thought process. Women generally stroke the bottom of the chin with a thumb and forefinger. People, who are long sighted and need their glasses for reading, will hold their glasses like a baton if they are in the habit of putting them on to read, and taking them off to look at you. Sucking the stem of the glasses is an evaluation gesture, rather than ‘stroking the beard.’ It is generally a positive evaluation of your ideas, suggestions, information or requests. Many people misunderstand folded arms. She may feel comfortable with her arms folded. She may be cold. Considering the rules, if you've just said something she dislikes, or disagrees with, and she sits back, folds her arms and puts her chin down, you have a very negative signal, even if she is smiling. 4. Movement Movement naturally catches a person’s eyes, like for instance when you are focused watching a settled object and all of a sudden in the corner of your eye you see something move, your attention will rapidly turn to focus all attention to that object that moved. Let’s Examine How Body Communicates, from head to toes 77 Importance of body language / movement Mind the body - talk Be careful with the handshakes. Communicate at the level of the person before you. We must be ourselves. Improve the atmosphere at the workplace. SHAKING HANDS WET FISH from a man this normally means an introvert, or a weak character, someone who is easily persuaded and likes to fit in. THE BONE CRUSHER handshake is used by macho dominant men. It's a show of strength and dominant character to the extreme. Often a case of, "Don't mess with me, I'm a hard man." A NEUTRAL handshake should use the same pressure to hold say a hammer, a bat or a racquet. The hand should be 'neutral' neither palm up nor palm down. A palm up handshake indicates subservience. A palm down handshake indicates control. A sequence of handshakes indicating degrees of warmth and passion. The double handshake shows great warmth and passion. You would only do this with close friends, and people with whom you have deep sincere gratitude. Anyone who gives you a handshake with two hands, when first meeting you, is likely to be insincere and overwhelming, or even deceitful. The last picture with the hand on the shoulder, could also end with the arm over the shoulder-it indicates further warmth and feeling. The scratch to the back of the neck indicates either the neck itches or uncertainty or even lying. Hand clasping at a desk or in a chair on its own may indicate nervousness, insecurity or anxiety. Loosely clasped would be more like anticipation and the more tightly clasped they are, the more the anxiety. Clasped hands in front of the body are a barrier signal, seeking reassurance. If the thumbs were steepled it would be a confidence gesture. Men, when evaluating and responding to women's ideas will often go into this position. The reply may even start with the arrogant little cough. The most supreme will be when the chair is Sat back with an arm over the chair will indicate lethargy. They maybe don't want to be there, and aren't giving you much attention. Leg cocked over the chair will indicate indifference. The attention they are giving you is minimal. 5. voice voice is a human sound that is used to transmit oral language from sender to receiver. voice classification system consist of : •voice set • voice quality • vocalization Guidelines for effective use of voice pitch variation speaking speed pause volume variation Non – fluencies 6. Eye contact The study of eye contact is sometimes known as oculesics. Although eye contact and facial expressions are often linked together, the eyes could transmit a message of their own. Eye contact is a type of nonverbal communication that is strongly influenced by social behavior. In the western civilizations, eye contact is most often defined as a sign of confidence. Eye contact is not consistent amongst different religions, cultures and social backgrounds. Eye contact can indicate how interested a person is in the communication taking place. It could also suggest trust and truthfulness. Often, then people are being untruthful, they tend to look away and resist eye contact. Gaze Important aspects of gaze: Looking while talking: This establishes a rapport with the person listening. Looking while listening: This reciprocates the rapport established. This aspect is often used during emotional connections such as flirting. Frequency of glance: This indicated involvement and how invested one is to the conversation. Patterns of fixation: This provides evidence as to where the attention lies. Pupil Dilation: This could often provide proof of interest and boredom. 7. Posture Posture refers to the carriage, state, and attitude of body or mind. Body posture is the bearing or the position of the speaker’s body. A persons general posture, even without specific gestures, communicates, meaning. POSTURE • The way one stands, sits or walks • Movement of the body, position of hands/legs & other parts • Measure of personality, success of communication • Vary according to situations Different forms of posture Different forms of posture Posture POSTURE The body position of an individual conveys a variety of messages. For example: superior usually take a more relaxed posture than their subordinates. Posture is also a way to demonstrate interest in another person POSTURE • • • • • • • Slumped Posture-Low Spirits Erect Posture-High Spirits, energy and confidence Lean Forward- Open and Interested Lean Away- Defensive or Disinterested Crossed Arms- Defensive Uncrossed Arms-Willingness to Listen Correct Posture-Move the legs freely, don't drag or shuffle them, walk in a straight line BELIEFS AND CUSTOMS What are values? Values are the basis for our behavior and motivation. Values are abstract, hierarchical and dynamic concepts that essentially describe what we desire or seek to achieve. We may hold values such as “loyalty”, “truthfulness”, “charity”, “service” and many others. What is a value? Qualities, characteristics, or ideas about which we feel strongly. Our values affect our decisions, goals and behavior. A belief or feeling that someone or something is worthwhile. Values define what is of worth, what is beneficial, and what is harmful Values are standards to guide your action, judgments, and attitudes. values/ beliefs values/ beliefs vary among individuals and groups; hence it is almost impossible to define them. We are not born with such values / beliefs / customs, they are either inculcated into us by our parents/ teachers Examples of discomfort when peoples individual values are breached: Changing the subject – when someone’s values/beliefs are breached- try to change the subject. Drop in the frequency of eye contact Remaining very silent for long periods of time during conversations. Direction: Values – Goals – Behavior – Self-value Values give direction and consistency to behavior. Values help you know what to and not to make time for. Values establish a relationship between you and the world. Values set the direction for one’s life. Your age will greatly influence your values. Different people and things influence you at different ages: Ages 1-7 --- parents Ages 8-13 --- teachers, heroes (sports, rocks, TV) Ages 14-20 --- peers (values because of peers or peers because of values?) Ages 21+ your values are established, but you may test your values from time to time. Value based – respond Touch Time Silence Eye contact BELIEFS Assumptions and convictions that are held to be true, by an individual or a group, regarding concepts, events, people, and things. Five Main Reasons You Believe The big 5 are: Evidence Tradition Authority Association Revelation CUSTOMS A practice followed by people of a particular group or region. A habitual practice of a person. Indians – perform various custom till their death. Some of them are as follows Naming new born baby - After the birth of a child, a ceremony for naming the child takes place. Namaskar/Namaste The most popular form of greeting, especially the elders, is to say Namaste with the hands joined at the chest level. Marriage ceremony -This function will take place for more than 2 days. Death Ceremony After a person passes away, the cremation is done according to certain rituals. What is culture? The customs, traditions, beliefs and values that a group of people share. It includes language, what they do, eat, make, believe and how they dress. Groups that share these traits are called a cultural group. Culture Comprises the shared values, understandings, assumptions, and goals that are learned from earlier generations, imposed by present members of a society, and passed on to succeeding generations. Culture Defined Culture is an integrated system of learned behavior patterns that are characteristic of the members of any given society. 117 Characteristics of Culture Culture is learned, shared, and transmitted from one generation to the next. Culture can be passed from parents to children, by social organizations, special interest groups, the government, schools, and churches. Culture is multidimensional, consisting of a number of common elements that are interdependent. 118 Acculturation Acculturation is the process of adjusting and adapting to a specific culture other than one’s own. It is one of the keys to success in international operations. 119 HIGH- VERSUS LOW-CONTEXT CULTURES High-context culture Low-context culture Context is at least as important as what is actually said Most of the information is contained explicitly in words What is not being said can carry more meaning than what is said What is said is more important that what is not said Focuses on group development Focuses on individual development Japan and Saudi Arabia are examples The U.S. is an example 120 Elements of Culture Language (verbal and nonverbal) Religion Values and Attitudes Manners and Customs Material Elements Social Institutions Education Aesthetics 121 Worldview and attitude of Non – verbal communication Non – verbal communication in Argentina A handshake and nod show respect when greeting someone. They stand close to each other when speaking. Do not back away. the O.K and “thumbs up ”gestures are considered vulgar. Cambodia They sits with their legs straight down and not crossed. Crossing their legs shows that they are an impolite person. The head is believed to contain the person soul therefore it is a taboo to touch or point at the head. It is not polite to have eye contact with someone who is older or someone who is considered a superior. China Chinese don’t point with the index finger but with an open hand. using both hands when offering something to a visitor or another person is considered being respectful. Many Chinese consider winking to be rude. India Men may shake hands with other men and women shake hands with other women. There is seldom handshake between men and women. Pointing a finger at someone would be considered rude. when Indian answers, “I will try ”he or she generally means “no”. This considered polite “no” Thank u