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• The Perfect Family - Genesis 2
• The Fall of the Perfect Family
– Genesis 3
• Husbands…Love and Protect –
Ephesians 5
• Wives…Submit and Respect –
Ephesians 5
• Children…Obey and Honor –
Ephesians 6 and select
Proverbs
• Communication in the Home
– Ephesians 4
• The Disciple-Making Father –
Deuteronomy 6
• Intimacy in Marriage – 1
Corinthians 7 and Song of
Solomon
• Love and Respect – 1 Peter 3
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• Does not mean inferiority—1
Corinthians 11:3; John 5:30
• Does not mean the husband is
infallible—ex. Rom. 13:1—imperfect
gov’t
• Does not mean the wife is
unproductive—Proverbs 31
• Does recognize God-given order and
authority-Eph. 5:23
• Does demonstrate your love for God—
John 14:15, 21, 31
• Does portray the church’s relationship
to Jesus-Eph. 5:23
• 1 Corinthians 11:3 But I
want you to know that
the head of every man is
Christ, the head of
woman is man, and the
head of Christ is God.
• John 5:30 I can of Myself
do nothing. As I hear, I
judge; and My judgment
is righteous, because I do
not seek My own will but
the will of the Father who
sent Me.
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• Does not mean inferiority—1
Corinthians 11:3; John 5:30
• Does not mean the husband is
infallible—ex. Rom. 13:1—imperfect
gov’t
• Does not mean the wife is
unproductive—Proverbs 31
• Does recognize God-given order and
authority-Eph. 5:23
• Does demonstrate your love for God—
John 14:15, 21, 31
• Does portray the church’s relationship
to Jesus-Eph. 5:23
The example of
submission to imperfect
government:
• Romans 13:1 Let every
soul be subject to the
governing authorities.
For there is no
authority except from
God, and the
authorities that exist
are appointed by God.
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• Does not mean inferiority—1
Corinthians 11:3; John 5:30
• Does not mean the husband is
infallible—ex. Rom. 13:1—imperfect
gov’t
• Does not mean the wife is
unproductive—Proverbs 31
• Does recognize God-given order and
authority-Eph. 5:23
• Does demonstrate your love for God—
John 14:15, 21, 31
• Does portray the church’s relationship
to Jesus-Eph. 5:23
•
Proverbs 31:10-11 10 Who can
find a virtuous wife? For her
worth is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband
safely trusts her; So he will have
no lack of gain. 13 She seeks
wool and flax, And willingly
works with her hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
She brings her food from afar.
15 She also rises while it is yet
night, And provides food for her
household, And a portion for her
maidservants.
16 She considers a field and buys
it; From her profits she plants a
vineyard.
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• Does not mean inferiority—1
Corinthians 11:3; John 5:30
• Does not mean the husband is
infallible—ex. Rom. 13:1—imperfect
gov’t
• Does not mean the wife is
unproductive—Proverbs 31
• Does recognize God-given order and
authority-Eph. 5:23
• Does demonstrate your love for God—
John 14:15, 21, 31
• Does portray the church’s relationship
to Jesus-Eph. 5:23
• Ephesians 5:23 For the
husband is head of the
wife, as also Christ is
head of the church;
and He is the Savior of
the body.
Family Life
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• Does not mean inferiority—1
Corinthians 11:3; John 5:30
• Does not mean the husband is
infallible—ex. Rom. 13:1—imperfect
gov’t
• Does not mean the wife is
unproductive—Proverbs 31
• Does recognize God-given order and
authority-Eph. 5:23
• Does demonstrate your love for God—
John 14:15, 21, 31
• Does portray the church’s relationship
to Jesus-Eph. 5:23
• John 14:15, 21, 31, “If you
love Me, keep My
commandments. 21 He
who has My
commandments and keeps
them, it is he who loves Me.
And he who loves Me will
be loved by My Father, and I
will love him and manifest
Myself to him.” 31 But that
the world may know that I
love the Father, and as the
Father gave Me commandment, so I do. Arise,
let us go from here.
Family Life
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• Does not mean inferiority—1
Corinthians 11:3; John 5:30
• Does not mean the husband is
infallible—ex. Rom. 13:1—imperfect
gov’t
• Does not mean the wife is
unproductive—Proverbs 31
• Does recognize God-given order and
authority-Eph. 5:23
• Does demonstrate your love for God—
John 14:15, 21, 31
• Does portray the church’s relationship
to Jesus-Eph. 5:23
• Ephesians 5:23 For the
husband is head of the
wife, as also Christ is
head of the church;
and He is the Savior of
the body.
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• Helper—You have been called to
complement your husband and his
purpose, vision and calling in life
• Fitting—Your role demands a
learner’s attitude towards the
needs, wants and desires of your
husband
• Progressively--As your husband’s
and family’s needs change, you also
must grow, change and adapt
• Genesis 2:18, “And the
Lord God said, “It is not
good that man should
be alone; I will make
him a helper
comparable to him.”
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• Without a word…won by the
conduct of their wives-1 Pet. 3:1
• They observe…chaste conduct
accompanied by fear-1 Pet. 3:2
• Let your adornment be…hidden
person of the heart-1 Pet. 3:3
• Incorruptible beauty…gentle and
quiet spirit-1 Pet. 3:4
• …precious in the sight of God—1
Pet. 3:4 c.f. 1 Peter 1:7, 19; 2:4, 6, 7
• Let the wife see that she respects
her husband-Eph. 5:33
•
“Wives, likewise, be
submissive to your own
husbands, that even if some
do not obey the word, they,
without a word, may be won
by the conduct of their wives,
when they observe your
chaste conduct accompanied
by fear. Do not let your
adornment be merely
outward…rather let it be the
hidden person of the heart,
with the incorruptible beauty
of a gentle and quiet spirit,
which is very precious in the
sight of God.” 1 Peter 3:1-4
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• Without a word…won by the
conduct of their wives-1 Pet. 3:1
• They observe…chaste conduct
accompanied by fear-1 Pet. 3:2
• Let your adornment be…hidden
person of the heart-1 Pet. 3:3
• Incorruptible beauty…gentle and
quiet spirit-1 Pet. 3:4
• …precious in the sight of God—1
Pet. 3:4 c.f. 1 Peter 1:7, 19; 2:4, 6, 7
• Let the wife see that she respects
her husband-Eph. 5:33
•
“Wives, likewise, be
submissive to your own
husbands, that even if some
do not obey the word, they,
without a word, may be won
by the conduct of their wives,
when they observe your
chaste conduct accompanied
by fear. Do not let your
adornment be merely
outward…rather let it be the
hidden person of the heart,
with the incorruptible beauty
of a gentle and quiet spirit,
which is very precious in the
sight of God.” 1 Peter 3:1-4
Family Life
Series
• Without a word…won by the
conduct of their wives-1 Pet. 3:1
• They observe…chaste conduct
accompanied by fear-1 Pet. 3:2
• Let your adornment be…hidden
person of the heart-1 Pet. 3:3
• Incorruptible beauty…gentle and
quiet spirit-1 Pet. 3:4
• …precious in the sight of God—1
Pet. 3:4 c.f. 1 Peter 1:7, 19; 2:4, 6, 7
• Let the wife see that she respects
her husband-Eph. 5:33
•
“Wives, likewise, be
submissive to your own
husbands, that even if some
do not obey the word, they,
without a word, may be won
by the conduct of their wives,
when they observe your
chaste conduct accompanied
by fear. Do not let your
adornment be merely
outward…rather let it be the
hidden person of the heart,
with the incorruptible beauty
of a gentle and quiet spirit,
which is very precious in the
sight of God.” 1 Peter 3:1-4
Family Life
Series
• Without a word…won by the
conduct of their wives-1 Pet. 3:1
• They observe…chaste conduct
accompanied by fear-1 Pet. 3:2
• Let your adornment be…hidden
person of the heart-1 Pet. 3:3
• Incorruptible beauty…gentle and
quiet spirit-1 Pet. 3:4
• …precious in the sight of God—1
Pet. 3:4 c.f. 1 Peter 1:7, 19; 2:4, 6, 7
• Let the wife see that she respects
her husband-Eph. 5:33
•
“Wives, likewise, be
submissive to your own
husbands, that even if some
do not obey the word, they,
without a word, may be won
by the conduct of their wives,
when they observe your
chaste conduct accompanied
by fear. Do not let your
adornment be merely
outward…rather let it be the
hidden person of the heart,
with the incorruptible beauty
of a gentle and quiet spirit,
which is very precious in the
sight of God.” 1 Peter 3:1-4
Family Life
Series
• Without a word…won by the
conduct of their wives-1 Pet. 3:1
• They observe…chaste conduct
accompanied by fear-1 Pet. 3:2
• Let your adornment be…hidden
person of the heart-1 Pet. 3:3
• Incorruptible beauty…gentle and
quiet spirit-1 Pet. 3:4
• …precious in the sight of God—1
Pet. 3:4 c.f. 1 Peter 1:7, 19; 2:4, 6, 7
• Let the wife see that she respects
her husband-Eph. 5:33
1 Peter 1:7 that the genuineness of
your faith, being much more precious
than gold that perishes…
1 Peter 1:19 but with the precious
blood of Christ, as of a lamb without
blemish and without spot.
1 Peter 2:4 Coming to Him as to a
living stone, rejected indeed by men,
but chosen by God and precious,
1 Peter 2:6 Therefore it is also
contained in the Scripture, “Behold, I
lay in Zion A chief cornerstone, elect,
precious, …
1 Peter 2:7 Therefore, to you who
believe, He is precious;
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• Without a word…won by the
conduct of their wives-1 Pet. 3:1
• They observe…chaste conduct
accompanied by fear-1 Pet. 3:2
• Let your adornment be…hidden
person of the heart-1 Pet. 3:3
• Incorruptible beauty…gentle and
quiet spirit-1 Pet. 3:4
• …precious in the sight of God—1
Pet. 3:4 c.f. 1 Peter 1:7, 19; 2:4, 6, 7
• Let the wife see that she respects
her husband-Eph. 5:33
• Ephesians 5:33
Nevertheless let each
one of you in particular
so love his own wife as
himself, and let the
wife see that she
respects her husband.
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