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When Someone You Love
Has Prostate Cancer
A presentation by:
Us TOO Prostate
Cancer Education &
Support Network
Cancer & the Family:
things you should know…
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More people are living with cancer now than ever
before, and new ways to treat cancer are being
discovered.
Having cancer doesn’t necessarily mean a person
will die from it.
Nothing you did or didn’t do caused your family
member to get cancer.
Things you should know – cont’d
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Nothing you thought or said caused your family
member to get cancer.
No one could have protected your loved one from
getting cancer.
If someone in your family has cancer, that doesn’t
mean that you or anyone else in your family also will
get it.
Things you should know – cont’d
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Cancer is not contagious, you can’t catch it from
someone else or give it to someone else.
Nobody can tell you why your loved one is sick and
you are healthy.
The way you behave cannot change the fact that
someone has cancer or that your family is upset.
Learn all you can about cancer
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Learning about prostate cancer and the treatment
being used by your loved one will help you better
understand what is happening to your loved one.
There is more than one way to treat prostate cancer,
even if 2 men follow the same treatment regime,
they may get very different results.
What it’s like for you…
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Feeling confused, scared, lonely, angry, guilty,
neglected, etc. are all common reactions. Feelings
aren’t “good or bad”.
Ignoring your feelings will not make them go away. A
better way to deal with your feelings is to admit you
have them and talk about them with someone you
trust.
Remember…
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Don’t be ashamed or afraid of the way you feel.
Others in your situation have felt the same way.
If you overhear someone talking and what you hear
scares you, ask them to explain what they just said.
Don’t assume that you heard everything and
understood what it meant, ask about it.
Keep learning…
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There are many different ways to think and feel
about having a loved one with cancer. People can
learn to adjust to change in their lives. Keep trying
and don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Helpful Resources for Families:
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Us TOO International 1/800/808-7866
National Cancer Institute 1/800/422-6237
Cancer Care 1/800/813-4673
Cancer Hope Network 1/877/467-3638
Cancer Information Service & Counseling Line
1/800/525-3777
Patient Advocate Foundation 1/800/532-5274